Nobody starts out knowing everything about sex. Inexperienced men can easily make mistakes and, as a result, disappoint their woman. We surveyed our female readers to bring 8 mistakes inexperienced men make a Japanese girlfriend in bed so you will know how to avoid disappointing your partner next time.
1. Not taking time over foreplay
“I understand he’s not experienced, but I still get turned off.” Some Japanese girls will get turned off if there isn’t a smooth flow in sex. Because it takes some women longer to get aroused, take some time over foreplay instead of going straight into sex.
2. Fumbling around when taking off her bra
“I start to roll my eyes…” Many inexperienced men will stumble over removing their partner’s bra. No matter how much they may struggle, experienced men will keep their cool. Next time you struggle, just stay cool and calmly ask her how to unhook it.
3. Taking forever putting a condom on, as if it’s his first time
“It makes me wonder if he’s ever done this before.” Some inexperienced men will fumble around when putting on a condom and that is a turn-off for women. To make things worse, you may panic and start to get soft again. Don’t put a condom back on if you tried but failed the first time. If you do mess up, just start again with a new one.
4. Touching her private parts forcefully
“If only he’d be gentler!” Touching forcefully can be a turn-off for Japanese girls as it can be uncomfortable and sometimes even painful. There may be scenes with rough fondling in porn, but keep in mind those people are acting and what they do doesn’t necessarily feel good for women in the real world. Start with soft touches and gauge your woman’s response.
5. Asking her “Does it hurt?” every other second when fingering her
“It gets really annoying and it also kills the mood!” Some Japanese girls voiced being turned off by the man’s lack of confidence. Of course, it is important to show you care about what you’re doing, but don’t annoy her. Asking her once or twice should get the message across . You can also tell her to let you know if anything hurts, so you won’t have to always ask her or guess.
6. Not knowing exactly where her vagina is when trying to penetrate
“This will start to make me worry…” Not knowing where you’re going and what you’re supposed to be doing usually makes Japanese girls feel unsafe. If you really can’t find her vagina, don’t force your penis in anywhere else. Just let her know honestly that you can’t find it and she will gladly guide you.
7. Being too forceful and not letting the mood build up gradually
“Goodness! We’re not animals.” Forcing anything makes you appear inexperienced and desperate. Being too pushy or aggressive is a turn-off, so take things gently until you know for sure she likes more aggressive play.
8. Not knowing what to do unless she calls out the orders
“It’s such a turn off!” Japanese girls want their man to be into sex and have fun as well. If you sit there passively, she will think you’re not enjoying yourself. If you really don’t know what to do but want to make her feel good, then ask her how she would like you to touch her.
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