The belief that a man should always be manly and straightforward is pretty well ingrained. But sometimes when a man begs for attention or wants to be spoiled, his Japanase girlfriend can find that cute, making it a positive thing. We surveyed young Japanese women in their twenties in order to introduce to you “9 ways a boyfriend can beg for attention that girls find cute.”
1. When he buckles under the pressure of work and says, “I can’t do this anymore...”
“When I’m the only one he shows his weak side to, it makes my heart melt.” He might be strong and reliable usually, but when he sometimes complains (just a bit), it can touch a woman’s heart.
2. He begs to rest his head on your lap and says, “Can I take a quick nap?”
“I think the way he wants to be in physical contact is cute.” When a man actively seeks to touch you – by, for example, resting his head on your lap – it’s easy to recognize his desire for affection, and therefore an easy wish to accept.
3. He opens his mouth during a meal and asks you, “Can I have a bite?”
“When he does it so casually and makes it look so delicious, it’s too cute to put into words.” When he acts like a child, a woman’s maternal instincts are triggered.
4. He shows you a garment with a button missing and asks, “Could you fix this for me?”
“It makes me happy to be relied on, and the awkward way he asks me is so cute.” He might not be very good at housework, but that’s not necessarily off-putting to a woman.
5. He asks you to make your specialty dish: “Can you make that for me?”
“When he lets me know that he likes my cooking, it makes me try even harder.” As you can see, the point is not to ask her to cook just anything, but to ask for her specialty dish.
6. He indicates a place on his back that he can’t reach and asks, “Can you scratch there for me?”
“When he asks for something dumb, especially because it’s dumb, it makes me feel that we have a really special relationship.” Many women feel happy when their boyfriend feels comfortable enough to ask tiny personal favors.
7. He suddenly calls you on the phone and says, “I just wanted to hear your voice.”
“I sometimes have those feelings too, so I really understand, and it makes me happy.” Getting the impulse to hear your girlfriend’s voice is a natural feeling to have when in a relationship.
8. After getting chilled from being outside, he offers his hands to you and asks, “Please warm me up.”
“It just makes me want to do something for him!” When he begs you to relieve him from the cold or his empty stomach, a woman just wants to help her man.
9. When you’re about to separate at the end of a date, and he begs you, “Please don’t go home yet.”
“When a man says something like that, even if I have to get up early the next morning, I’ll find a way to go home later.” When a boyfriend expresses that he wants to stay with you just a bit longer, it makes a woman very happy.
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